Astrology and Relationships

As you know I have been led to review my past and then this morning the suggestion was given again. I tend to constantly look at my past anyway, but specific areas have been brought to my attention lately.


Yeah, this is a big one for us all. Who doesn’t have a relationship of some sort? We are literally born into them and they keep coming after that.

I have not had a ton of romantic relationships. I love astrology so I am going to post the various “signs” that I hooked up with. Just to remind you, my sun is in Leo, my moon in Sagittarius and my rising in Aquarius.


I married my first love and so was tied up in that one for a good 10 years from the age of 17 to 26. He was an Aries with a Capricorn moon. I can’t remember his ascendant now. He was mostly Capricorn – workaholic. Always gone. Very career-oriented and ambitious. My job was to get him on track with his career because he had some major confidence issues. That’s it. I knew it when we met and I knew it when I left him and broke his heart. He just recently moved past that hurt. I could also read him like a book. Who can psychically read their spouse/partner? Me, apparently.


I jumped into a relationship right after my divorce. He was a Virgo and I don’t remember much. He was my rebound, of course. I do recall he was very clean – anal retentive. He also had some weird habits, etc. He ended up cheating on me – just a make-out session. Bye bye Virgo rebound.


Aquarians are by far my favorite I have to say. The one I met was my first ever intense connection. I wouldn’t call it a heart connection but it was intense. He was married and much older (10yrs?) than me and his energy made me shake uncontrollably. He came onto me and I made dumb decisions. Turns out it was a past life, karmic connection that played out perfectly (husband in 1920s that killed me). In retrospect, I believe he was learning more than I was.


This was another intense relationship but all sexual. All I will say is I don’t want to go there again, no matter how amazing the sex was. It’s not worth it. Lesson learned.


I dated only one man younger than me. In this case he was a Cancerian and 7 years younger then me. Such wonderful, loving and gentle energy. Unfortunately, I got easily bored with him. Sigh. In retrospect, I really needed that at the time. Slow down.Take it easy. Feel. Yeah right! hahaha


This one is complicated as I wasn’t really in a relationship with him, except that I was. Kinda. lol He was 12 years older than me and I was in the middle of my Dark Night at the time. We could talk about anything – great mental connection. However, I was not attracted to him like he was me. We should have just been friends. We would have been great friends but I was very lonely at the time. I messed this one up royally and know I will have to revisit the karma created in a future life. He is still very, very angry at me and he should be.


Not a good match. That’s all I will say. LOL


Really nice energy, awesome sex drive, not too much of a talker – more of a feeler. I got bored, though, as expected. 😦 He was really a nice guy. Maybe that was the problem? He was one of the few to break up with me. I don’t do well with being the one broken up with. LOL I was not very nice to him I’m ashamed to say. 😦


My current husband is a Gemini with a Leo moon and a Libra ascendant. Actually he is a Taurus-Gemini cusp. I think sometimes he is more Taurus and other times more Gemini. I prefer the Gemini even thought the high energy is a bit overwhelming sometimes. When I had our charts done I was told we were a perfect astrological match. I don’t know about that or even what it means, but we do get along well for the most part. My husband is very intense, like me, and our main attraction to one another was mental. We both philosophize and are into spirituality. I use to could talk to him for hours. He is very stubborn and persistent. I will say I have never been with someone more stubborn than me until now. The stubborn streak must be the Taurus. He exhausts me. He won’t let me run out of an argument. I tend to try and escape him because of his energy during a fight and he will corner me. Not good to do to a Leo on the run! Out come the claws as you can guess. So yeah, let’s just say we are volatile under the right circumstances.


My children came into my life to ground me I think. My daughter is a double Taurus. My middle some a double Capricorn (double meaning sun/moon). My youngest must be here to stir things up. He is a double Aries. Firecracker. lol

My mom is a Libra with Leo moon. We are best friends. My older sister is Sagittarius with Aquarius moon but I can’t remember her ascendant. We’ve had some grand times together. My youngest sister is an Aries with Cancer moon. She is probably the moodiest Aries I have ever met. lol My dad was a Scorpio and had trouble showing his emotions. My grandparents were both Libras. I had/have a very strong connection with my grandfather. I didn’t know my grandparents on my father’s side.

My in-law relationships have been interesting as well. My ex’s parents were Sagittarius and Libra. I didn’t get alone with his mom which was a Sag. She was passive-aggressive. I loved his Dad. My current husband has only a mother left and she is a Libra. We get along great. My brother-in-laws are Aries and Virgo and my sister-in-laws are Aries and Sagittarius. I get along with them all.


I haven’t had many close friends in my life. I tend to be friends with my husband/partner and am not overly social (introverted for the most part). I was very social during my Dark Night, but mostly with my sister and her friends. I, personally, just tagged along and learned very quickly that I was not into what my sister was into. Lesson learned.

My best friends tend to be fire signs. So far Leo and Aries win out here.


Relationship-wise, I do best with air signs followed by fire signs. I really connect with air signs on a mental level and for me, this is where the ultimate connection happens anyway. I am very intense energy-wise, too. When I love someone, it is all out and I have heard many times, “You are too intense”. LOL Fire signs tend to bring out my sexual side and, while this is nice and all, I lose interest because there has to be that mental connection for me. This is why my first marriage failed (among other things). He was not much of a conversationalist.

Earth signs are OK but tend to make me want to stay home all the time, which is okay if that is what I want to do. They are great friends, though. Ultimately I will get bored or fed up with an Earth sign. Water signs are great pacifiers of my energy but for a relationship they are a no-go. I will just stomp all over them and their sensitive feelings.





18 thoughts on “Astrology and Relationships

  1. litebeing says:

    I eat this stuff up for breakfast lol! I track all my relationships also. Enjoyed your analysis, well done. I tend towards Pisces, Scorpio, Sag or Leo type men.Some as friends and some as love interests. They typically have a fixed moon. My moon is not fixed but I have plenty of fixed energy. They often also have a Saturnian flair ( strong Saturn or Cap rising, etc) I have dated other types, but these are the trends.

    Remember I spotted major Cap energy with you? Well you have sun conjunct Saturn, voila! You were very easy for me to read. I do not always make such accurate predictions. This was so much fun! loved it.

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    • Dayna says:

      I thought of you when I posted my chart. I figured if the Cap energy was there you would spot it. 😉

      I have never dated a Sag or Leo man. Well, I tried to date a Leo but he was really clingy and I don’t do clingy. LOL I just now remember that in high school I dated two air signs, one was an Aquarius. He actually stalked me after I broke up with him. He, too, was very clingy – really bad actually.

      I also do not do well with flakes. The Pisces and Aquarius I dated mentioned in this post were both flakey. They would say they would do something or be somewhere and not do it or not show/be late. It drove me crazy! I can’t handle that. The Pisces was really bad that way and the Aquarius I dated was a Pisces cusp.

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      • litebeing says:

        I do not like flakey people and I keep attracting them but not as much now. I have found Cancer men to be big babies and Virgos kinda boring. I don’t do baby or boring. I value Pisces intelligence, creativity, and sensitivity. But they can be weak. Leo men often butt heads with me ( stubborn) but I like the swagger and creativity and warmth. We often attract and enjoy our Descendant but since yours is also your Sun, it could be way too much. I love fire and water, but anything is subject to change.

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      • Dayna says:

        Dang, you just reminded me of the Scorpio I dated. LOL I have to put him in now. Sigh.

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      • litebeing says:

        How could you forget a Scorp, hehe?

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      • Dayna says:

        Easy, he was boring. And the relationship lasted maybe 3 months.

        Looking at all these men I’m glad I didn’t get around as much as some other people. This post would have to be in multiple sections if I did!

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      • litebeing says:

        You have Venus in Virgo so you are picky and not “loose”. But moon in Sag likes adventure. I have venus in Sag so my post would be a series 🙂

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  2. herongrace says:

    You have the classic psychic signature of moon closely conjunct Neptune, both forming a close flowing trine, easy energy flow to your sun conjunct Saturn. This shows you could use your psychic/ healing abilities your career and be publicly recognised as such. Fab chart!

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  3. herongrace says:

    Yeah There are quite a few psychic signatures. I know a psychic healer with that signature who does amazing toning work too. I think you could do that as well given that your Chiron, not shown here is nearly 2* Taurus ruling throat in 3rd, house conjunct your south node , past life. Wonder if you were a singer/ healer in past life?
    Anyway moon is from past, intuitive hitting the mark Archer Sag, next to deep planet collective unconscious, spiritual Neptune.
    The really interesting part is that Saturn has just transitted these 2 and is currently transitting your 10th house career/ public image. Literally rebuilding your career, public image as a psychic/ healer visionary of Truth. It’s a biggie, cheers!

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    • Dayna says:

      Thanks. 🙂

      I sing in this life. 🙂 Just not for a career, though that use to be my “dream” when I was young. I have a minor in music. :)))

      What you say about Saturn is interesting. I am being prepared for a big “change” and to do my “work” but honestly the idea of trying to start back using my abilities scares me.


  4. herongrace says:

    Well your chart is a fab blueprint and you have strong supportive connections to help you. I think that October this year will be highly transformational.

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    • Dayna says:

      Thank you. I have been told that this year is a BIG year for me. Sigh. I only wish it didn’t mean big upheaval as I feel this is part of the bigness of it.


  5. herongrace says:

    You are very welcome. You give so much out that I’m happy to help at all. The last couple of years have brought about big transformationin you.This will increase for another 18 months or so. Consolidation 10th house career. A useful tip for looking for possibility of major change is to follow the path of eclipses esp. solar and see if they impact any planets, points in our chart and keep in mind we feel them before they arrive and quite some after they pass. I have Huge! respect for eclipses, Lol!

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    • Dayna says:

      Wow. The 18 months corresponds to the time frame I was given by my guides in June, 2014. They told me about the ascension and that I would “leave” in “4 years” or something similar. I thought I had written it down but can’t find it anywhere. 😦

      I wonder what was happening in my chart in Dec 2014 and Dec 2015? Both were extremely transforming months.


      • herongrace says:

        I will check for you when I get time. Off the cuff, Uranus was opposing your Pluto. Uranus the Upheavalist bringing up deep sea issues from Pluto the Transformer God of the Underworld. Major stuff!
        Right now I have magicked a fab Handyman finally! and we will be building. Positive application of Saturn The Bricklayer. Yay!!

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      • Dayna says:

        Oh that’s great news about the handyman! My husband is mine – he works for free and is always on call. lol

        Thanks for the little tidbit of info about Uranus and Pluto. That sounds about right about last Dec. Upheaval indeed!


      • herongrace says:

        Just quickly, so not much thought you were going through Pluto square to your natal Pluto, significant transit, 1st. December 2015, Mars was transitting your natal PLuto triggering this square more.Bear in mind that Pluto is the great transformer, which in your case is uber true Lol! So I’m picking up like an astral operation? could b wrong. I odn’t remember what you were writing at that time. It also probably brought up deep seated emotions and being Mars the Warrior, possibly anger.
        Lucky you being married to a handyman!

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